300+ Fun Get To Know You Questions To Ask Kids ‣ Felicia Graves

As a Christian parent, you know that building a strong relationship with your child is so important. One of the best ways to do that is to get to know them better – to understand their dreams, their fears, their hopes, and their struggles. But sometimes it can be difficult to know where to start, especially when you’re trying to navigate the hectic pace of everyday life. That’s why I’ve put together a list of 300 questions to ask your child to get to know them better. These questions cover everything from their relationships with friends and family to their faith and their hopes for the future. So whether you’re looking for a fun conversation starter or trying to build a deeper connection with your child, this list is a great place to start. Let’s dive in!

Oh and p.s. the dreaded “how was school today” is no where to be found in this list. I’m giving you questions that kids will actually want to give a real answer to.

What Are Some Fun Icebreaker Questions?

Let’s get started with a few questions that will get the conversation flowing and grow your confidence in asking questions and really hearing your child’s answer. One of the best things you can do after you ask one of these get to know you questions to your child is to bite your tongue and listen. Even if you have to actually bite your tongue to remind you to stay quiet and hear what they have to say.

After your child has answered it can be helpful to rephrase what they said and then repeat it back to them. So if your child says, “I guess I like it most when you play my video game with me but I know you hate doing that.”, you can respond by saying, “You like playing the video game with mom! I didn’t realize that. What do you like about it?” In the moment you may have wanted to defend yourself against your child saying you don’t enjoy playing with them but the best communication practice is to keep the focus on the person that you are wanting to know better, in this case your child. If you do want to address the accusation then open-ended questions that are free from judgement are your best bet. You could respond with, “You feel like I don’t like playing video games with you. What makes you feel that way?”

What is your favorite subject in school?
What is your favorite book?
What is your favorite movie?
What is your favorite TV show?
What is your favorite color?
What is your favorite food?
What is your favorite hobby?
What is your favorite game?
What is your favorite animal?
What is your favorite place to go?
What is your favorite memory?
What is your favorite thing to do with friends?
What is your favorite thing to do with family?
What is something you’re good at?
What is something you’d like to learn?
What is your dream job?
What is your biggest fear?
What is something you’re proud of?
What is something you’re thankful for?
What is something that makes you happy?
What is something that makes you sad?
What is something that makes you angry?
What is something that makes you frustrated?
What is something that makes you excited?
What is something that makes you nervous?
What is something that makes you laugh?
What is something that makes you cry?
What is something that makes you feel loved?
What is something that makes you feel appreciated?
What is something that makes you feel valued?

What Questions Can Get Kids Talking?

As Christian homemakers, one of the most important things we can do is cultivate a strong relationship with our children. It’s the best thing we can do for them and for ourselves. The dinner table is often the first thing that comes to mind when we think of having meaningful conversations with our children, but it’s not the only place. The car is an excellent place to get kids, especially older kids, talking to you. Because the pressure is off to face one another and make eye contact you may find that even your most stubborn child will open up more during a drive.

Asking the right questions and being a good friend to our children is a great way to open up lines of communication and build a relationship that will last a lifetime. Building a strong relationship with our children is one of the hardest things we will ever do as parents, but it’s also the best gift we can give them. When we take the time to get to know our children and connect with them on a deep level, we create a bond that can never be broken.

What is something you wish people knew about you?
What is something you’re looking forward to?
What is something you’re not looking forward to?
What is something you’d like to change about yourself?
What is something you’d like to change about the world?
What is something you’re curious about?
What is something you’re worried about?
What is something you’d like to try?
What is something you’d like to accomplish?
What is something you’d like to improve?
What is something you’d like to overcome?
What is something you’re passionate about?
What is something you’re not interested in?
What is something you’re good at that you don’t enjoy?
What is something you’re not good at that you’d like to try?
What is something you’re not good at that you’d like to improve?
What is something you’d like to teach others?
What is something you’d like to learn from others?
What is something you’d like to do for others?
What is something you’d like to receive from others?
What is something you’re grateful for today?
What is something you’re looking forward to tomorrow?
What is something you enjoyed doing yesterday?
What is something you’re proud of yourself for?
What is something you’d like to do better next time?
What is something you’re excited about in the future?
What is something you’d like to share with me?
What is something you’d like to talk about?
What is something you’d like to ask me?
What is something you’d like to know about me?

Questions To Ask Kids About Their Faith

What do you think it means to be a Christian?
What are some of your favorite stories from the Bible?
How do you feel when you pray?
Do you feel like God speaks to you when you pray or read the Bible? If so, how?
How do you feel about attending church?
What is your favorite part of a church service?
How do you feel when you sing worship songs or hymns?
What is your favorite worship song or hymn?
Have you ever had an experience where you felt like God was with you in a difficult situation? Can you share it?
Do you have a favorite Bible verse or passage? What is it?
How do you think you can live out your faith in your daily life?
What do you think it means to love your neighbor as yourself?
How do you feel about sharing your faith with others?
Do you have any questions about God or the Bible that you’ve been thinking about lately?
How do you think we can help others in need?
How do you think we can live out the commandment to honor our parents?
How do you think we can grow closer to God as a family?
What do you think about serving in our church or community?
How do you feel about tithing or giving back to God?
What do you think it means to have a personal relationship with God?
Have you ever experienced God’s grace or forgiveness? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about reading the Bible?
Have you ever struggled with doubts or questions about your faith? Can you share about it?
How do you think we can best support and encourage each other in our faith?
How do you feel about baptism or communion?
How do you think we can be better stewards of God’s creation?
How do you think we can best show love to those who may not believe in God?
How do you think we can show God’s love to those who are hurting or going through a difficult time?
How do you feel about the concept of forgiveness?
How do you think we can best follow God’s will for our lives?
Have you ever experienced God’s peace in a difficult situation? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about reading Christian literature or listening to Christian podcasts?
Have you ever felt like you were being called to a certain ministry or service? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about fasting or other spiritual disciplines?
How do you think we can better understand God’s plan for our lives?
How do you think we can best use our talents and gifts to serve God?
How do you feel about memorizing Bible verses or passages?
How do you think we can better understand and appreciate the diversity of God’s creation?
How do you feel about the concept of eternal life?
How do you think we can better understand and appreciate the sacrifice of Jesus Christ?
How do you feel about participating in mission work or outreach programs?
Have you ever felt like you were being challenged to grow in your faith? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about listening to Christian music or watching Christian movies?
How do you think we can best deal with difficult or challenging situations from a Christian perspective?
How do you feel about forgiveness and reconciliation with others?
Have you ever felt like God was calling you to a specific career or life path? Can you share about it?

What Do You Talk About With Kids?

Asking open-ended questions is an excellent way to get our kids to open up and reveal more about themselves than they would with one-word responses. We spend the whole day asking a lot of questions as parents, but sometimes we forget to ask the best questions that will help us connect with our children on a deeper level. When we ask serious questions that require more than a one-word answer, we show our children that we care about them and are interested in what’s going on in their lives. In today’s world of social media and digital distractions, taking the time to ask the right types of questions is more important than ever. It can be the hardest thing to do as parents, especially with older kids who may be more guarded or independent, but it’s the best way to get a glimpse into our child’s mind and heart. So, let’s take the time to ask the best questions and foster meaningful conversations that will strengthen our relationships with our children for years to come.

What is something you’d like to know about your siblings?
What is something you’d like to know about your extended family?
What is something you’d like to know about your friends?
What is something you’d like to know about your classmates?
What is something you’d like to know about your teachers?
What is something you’d like to know about your community?
What is something you’d like to know about the world?
What is something you’d like to know about history?
What is something you’d like to know about science?
What is something you’d like to know about art?
What is something you’d like to know about music?
What is something you’d like to know about literature?
What is something you’d like to know about politics?
What is something you’d like to know about religion?
What is something you’d like to know about different cultures?
What is something you’d like to know about different languages?
What is something you’d like to know about different cuisines?
What is something you’d like to know about different traditions?
What is something you’d like to know about different customs?
What is something you’d like to know about different holidays?
What is something you’d like to know about different sports?
What is something you’d like to know about different hobbies?
What is something you’d like to know about different careers?
What is something you’d like to know about different countries?
What is something you’d like to know about different time periods?
What is something you’d like to know about different inventions?
What is something you’d like to know about different discoveries?
What is something you’d like to know about different landmarks?
What is something you’d like to know about different monuments?
What is something you’d like to know about different natural wonders?
What is something you’d like to know about different man-made structures?
What is something you’d like to know about different technological advancements?

Funny Questions To Ask Kids

If you could eat only one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
If you could trade places with anyone in the world, who would it be and why?
What’s the silliest thing you’ve ever done?
If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
What’s your favorite joke?
If you could have any animal as a pet, what would it be and why?
If you could only wear one color for the rest of your life, what would it be?
What’s the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?
If you could create your own ice cream flavor, what would it be?
If you could be any character from a book, who would it be?
What’s the funniest word you know?
If you could time travel to any era, which would it be and why?
What’s the funniest thing you’ve ever heard?
If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
What’s the weirdest food combination you’ve ever tried?
If you could be any fictional character’s best friend, who would it be?
If you could be any animal for a day, which would you choose?
What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever seen?
If you could make a rule that everyone had to follow, what would it be?
What’s the funniest face you can make?
If you could have any talent in the world, what would it be?
What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you?
If you could be a character in any movie, which would it be?
What’s the funniest thing you’ve ever said?
If you could have any car in the world, which would it be?
What’s the funniest dance move you know?
If you could live in any video game, which would it be?
What’s the funniest costume you’ve ever worn?
If you could have any superpower, but it had to be ridiculous, what would it be?
If you could have any type of pizza topping, what would it be?

Questions To Ask Younger Children

Even our littlest children can participate in sharing more about themselves by answering questions. These questions for our very young children will have them giggling, smiling, and having lots of fun.

What’s your favorite toy right now?
Can you show me how you jump?
What’s your favorite food?
Can you tell me a story?
What’s your favorite color?
Can you count to 10?
What’s your favorite animal?
Can you show me how to clap?
What’s your favorite book?
Can you show me how to make a tower with blocks?
What’s your favorite song?
Can you show me how to spin around?
What’s your favorite thing to do outside?
Can you show me how to draw a circle?
What’s your favorite thing to do inside?
Can you show me how to make a funny face?
What’s your favorite thing to wear?
Can you show me how to give a high-five?
What’s your favorite thing to do before bed?
Can you show me how to say “please” and “thank you”?
What’s your favorite thing to do in the morning?
Can you show me how to hop on one foot?
What’s your favorite animal sound to make?
Can you show me how to do a puzzle?
What’s your favorite thing to do with your family?
Can you show me how to make a silly noise?
What’s your favorite TV show?
Can you show me how to dance?
What’s your favorite thing to do in the bathtub?
Can you show me how to blow a kiss?

Questions That Improve Relationship Between Parent And Child

What are some activities we could do together that you would enjoy?
How can I support you better in your goals and interests?
Is there anything you would like me to do differently as a parent?
How do you feel about our current level of communication?
What are some things we can do to improve our relationship?
What are some things you wish I knew about you?
What are some things you wish you could talk to me about?
How can I help you feel more understood and validated?
Are there any conflicts or misunderstandings we need to address?
How can I be a better listener to you?
Is there anything you would like to teach me or share with me?
How can we make more time for each other?
Are there any traditions or rituals you would like to start as a family?
How can we create a more positive and supportive home environment?
What are some things we can do to show more appreciation and gratitude towards each other?
How can we work together to solve problems and make decisions?
Are there any boundaries or expectations we need to establish or revisit?
How can we navigate conflicts and disagreements in a more constructive way?
What are some things we can do to show more empathy and understanding towards each other?
Is there anything we need to forgive each other for?
How can we work together to make our family a stronger and more loving unit?
What are some of the best memories we’ve shared together?
What are some goals or dreams we can work towards as a family?
How can we support each other through challenging times or transitions?
What are some things we can do to make each other feel more loved and valued?

Questions To Help A Child Think About Their Future

What are some of your favorite hobbies or activities?
What do you enjoy learning about?
If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
What kind of work environment do you thrive in?
What are some of your biggest strengths and talents?
Are there any particular industries or fields that interest you?
What kind of impact would you like to have on the world?
What are some of the things you value most in a career?
Are there any particular companies or organizations that you admire?
Do you prefer to work independently or as part of a team?
What are some of your long-term goals?
Have you ever considered starting your own business or pursuing entrepreneurship?
What kind of work-life balance do you envision for yourself in the future?
Are there any particular skills or certifications you would like to acquire?
What are some of your favorite classes or subjects in school?
Have you ever participated in any internships or volunteer opportunities that have sparked your interest in a particular career?
What kind of salary or income do you hope to earn in the future?
Do you have any mentors or role models who have inspired you in your career aspirations?
What kind of lifestyle do you hope to have in the future?
What are some of the biggest challenges you see yourself facing in your future career?
What kind of education or training do you think you’ll need to achieve your career goals?
Are there any specific job titles that interest you?
What kind of work culture or office environment do you feel most comfortable in?
Have you ever considered pursuing a career in a non-profit or social justice field?
What are some of the things you think will be most important for you to enjoy about your future career?

Questions To Help A Child Open Up

How would you describe yourself?
What do you think are your greatest strengths?
What do you think are your biggest challenges?
How do you feel about yourself?
Have you ever felt insecure or uncertain about yourself? What caused it, and how did you overcome it?
Do you ever feel like you don’t fit in with your peers? Can you tell me more about that?
How do you handle stress or pressure?
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions? How did you cope with it?
What do you think are the most important qualities for a person to have?
How do you deal with disappointment or failure?
Have you ever felt like you weren’t good enough? How did you overcome that feeling?
How do you feel about your future?
What makes you happy?
What do you think are your limitations?
How do you handle criticism or negative feedback?
Have you ever felt like you didn’t belong or fit in with your family? Can you tell me more about that?
How do you feel about your appearance?
Have you ever felt like you were misunderstood? How did you deal with that feeling?
How do you deal with negative self-talk or self-doubt?
Have you ever struggled with anxiety or depression? How did you cope with it?
What do you think are your biggest accomplishments?
How do you feel about your relationships with others?
Have you ever felt like you didn’t have anyone to talk to? How did you handle it?
How do you handle difficult or uncomfortable situations?
What do you think are the most important things for you to remember when it comes to your mental health and well-being?

Questions To Ask About A Child’s Relationships

Who is your closest sibling, and why?
What do you like to do with your siblings or cousins?
Who is your best friend, and what do you like about them?
Do you have any friends that you’ve known since you were very young? Can you tell me about them?
Do you have any close friends at school? What do you like to do with them?
Do you have any friends who live far away? How do you keep in touch with them?
Have you ever had a fight or disagreement with a friend? How did you resolve it?
How do you feel about your relationship with your siblings?
How do you and your siblings get along?
Have you ever had to stand up for a sibling or a friend? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about making new friends?
Do you have any cousins that you’re close to? What do you like to do with them?
Who is the funniest person in your family? Why?
Do you have any relatives that you feel particularly close to? Who are they?
Have you ever had a family member help you through a difficult situation? Can you share about it?
How do you feel about spending time with extended family members?
Have you ever had a friend or sibling who was going through a tough time? How did you support them?
How do you feel about making new friends at church?
How do you feel about spending time with your grandparents?
Do you have any relatives who live in different countries? How do you stay in touch with them?
Have you ever had a friend or sibling who moved away? How did you feel about it?
How do you feel about having friends from different cultural backgrounds?
Who is the most caring person in your family, and why?
Do you have any relatives who are your role models? Who are they, and why?
How do you feel about spending time with your aunts and uncles?
Have you ever had a friend or sibling who was going through a tough time at school? How did you support them?
How do you feel about spending time with your cousins?
Do you have any friends who are like family to you? Who are they, and why?
How do you feel about being part of a blended family?
Have you ever had a relative or friend who was going through a tough time with their health? How did you support them?
How do you feel about spending time with your parents’ friends?
Who do you go to for advice when you’re having trouble with a friend or sibling?
Have you ever had a relative or friend who was struggling with addiction or mental health issues? How did you support them?
How do you feel about spending time with your godparents or mentors?
Do you have any relatives who have had a significant impact on your life? Who are they, and why?
Have you ever had a friend or sibling who was dealing with bullying? How did you support them?
How do you feel about spending time with your parents’ siblings?
Do you have any friends or siblings who have different political or religious beliefs than you? How do you navigate those differences?
Who is the most creative person in your family, and why?
How do you feel about spending time with your parents’ parents?
Have you ever had a friend or sibling who was dealing with a difficult academic situation? How did you support them?